Question by Lyonella: Need help with this situation?
Every time I ask I always get the same answers
I need a job but I’ve been told I’m not allowed to work due to my availability and relying on public transit system which sucks. I live in a town that’s 2miles lone with very little to no employment opportunities. So I have to travel outside of the town to get work.
The second problem I can’t get a job because I don’t have a college degree. I had to drop out of college because my dad died my last year unexpectedly and I lost my financial aid because I was on financial aid probation the year before for missing school. I had to go to the hospital because I was always sick due to my hyperthyroidism & graves disease. Plus I lost my pell grant because they told me the reason was that my dad shouldn’t've brought this car. But I had no other way to get to college and my family felt it’s not their responsibility.
I’ve tried everything possible and exhausted all possible solutions. I applied to burger joints, restaurants, stores, department stores, the mall and clothing stores, the post office, government jobs, county jobs, I tried being a nanny, housekeeper even a dog walker. I looked into 9-5 jobs but like the most jobs they want someone who has a degree, 5-10years experience or to be able to work 24/7 plus holidays or the all time favorite reallocate to a new city. All of which I can’t do or don’t have.
I’ve tried to get “services” but I don’t qualify for welfare because I’m not pregnant, don’t have kids and I’m not disabled. It’s a 50/50 if I qualify for medical or food stamps. But first I need a copy of my birth certificate I don’t know where it’s at. I don’t have any money, haven had a bank account in over 3years. So I can’t really get it replaced. I tried the churches but they want you to volunteer and the ones close by need a driver. I don’t drive or own a car. I don’t know how to ride a bike or how to roller skate or skate board. Or the churches want you to join and give money to the “building fund” and doesn’t help me and I’m not much of a church person in the first place. I don’t want to hear about crazy miracles either. I don’t qualify for unemployment and I ask welfare about getting some help looking for employment or going back to school and the one woman told me I needed to be under 21 and in school full time already.
I don’t have any references. I have bad credit. I’m in debt in the thousands that keep drawing in more interest (lady told me yesterday that my defaulted student loans they have gains $ 27 a day if I don’t pay it in full which is $ 5,500). I’ve tried to talk to the lenders they refuse to meet me half way. I’ve called the places I’ve applied to and I always get ignored or the HR people left early this or I dunno and try again or they make these promises of calling back or emailing this and never do.
So what do I do?? I have a sick elderly mom who’s on social security and has bills, taxes and Medicare to pay for so she can’t help me. She had brain surgery and is still in recovery and need help with different tasks. Plus it’s best if someone’s with her because she’ll sometimes leave the burner on by accident or forgets to lock the door. I’m basically the only person she’s got. My dad did take care of her all the way up until he died.
My family told me they hope I would become a orphan and they eve refused to be a reference for me. Even when I was away at college they refuse to help or check in on my mom so she was home by herself. But yet in still her and my dad did everything for them.
My friends only think I’m good enough to babysit when they go bar hopping. But they don’t want to pay and won’t come back for their kids until they want to. I refuse to do that at all. They don’t talk to me or tell I don’t understand their “happy lives” now that they’re parents, have kids, some are married and others are career driven.
So I’ve exhausted all my resources and tried everything. What exactly do I do now??
Someone told me to find a guy to take care of me. I’m 25 and I’ve never had a boyfriend or been on a real date—just hook ups maybe. They guys here don’t find me attractive enough and I’m not blonde blue eyed or a twig. Plus I don’t do blowjobs so that’s another disqualification there.
Should I find a sugar daddy, commit suicide or be a prostitute??
Do you have any other suggestions?? I don’t have any money, can’t just go out and do things and I can’t seem to get a job without experience or a degree. Can’t have a degree without money for school. Can’t get any help because I don’t have a kid so what exactly do I do??
Answer by Foofa
You need to start a business that you can do online since you obviously have internet access. Do some research and figure out what you can do from home with minimal outlay of cash. Also if your student loans are private (as opposed to governmentally backed) you can always declare bankruptcy. If they’re government backed loans you can’t go BK on them but you can explain your situation and try to negotiate something. Depending on what state you live in you may be eligible to apply for pay for the in-home care you’re giving your mom (California has this). Don’t commit suicide, your mother doesn’t deserve that pain. Without oral you wouldn’t make a good prostitute either. Be entrepreneurial and use your interests to build a business and get a handle on your life. Good luck.
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Question by ballintastic: Need Help with Song List for Party?
Okay so my half brother got married and is 40 years old. I was put in charge of music for the party that will be held at my parents house this saturday (july 9.) Now the party is an indoor/outdoor type of things with a speaker probably playing in the background so both areas can hear the music. At his wedding the music ranged from dance oldies in the beginning that everyone knew then progressed into more and more young people dance music as the night went on.
I think this is a good rubric to stick to so that later in the night the younger people can dance to the younger music. I will also start off by playing some nice background music/ instrumentals when everyone is still talking (Their will probably be a much greater portion of time where people are talking and eating outside/inside than just dancing.)
The age of the guests range from 20-85 with the average age around 50
The following songs are what i have complied in the instrumental/background/dance categories so far (progressing down just the the style of the night.)
Off My Mind-Javelin
40 Layers – 40 Winks
Flirtations -40 Winks
Do Me A Favor-40 Winks
Some body’s Baby- Jackson Browne
Mellow My Man – The Roots
Waiting in Vain – Bob Marley & The Wailers
In Love Not Limbo-Of Oceans
Call Me- Blondie
Roller skate (You Learn To)- Call and Response
Unchained Melody-Righteous Brothers
Modern Love-David Bowie
Black Magic Woman-Santana
Listen To The Music-The Doobie Brothers
Diplomat’s Son-Vampire Weekend
Feel It All Around-Washed Out
Band On The Run-16th Stage
Sacre Cool -Young Montana?
Just Dance – Lady Gaga Feat. Colby O’Donis
I am 17 years old btw (if that matters haha)
Any suggestions for songs (classics, oldies, new songs, etc) would be greatly appreciated, and even if you have a suggestion about my current song list. Thanks for taking the time to read this and thanks in advance for any help.
Answer by German Shepard lvr
if i were you i would go with pop but that is just me jason de rulo and bruno mars are also good artists or you can just go to www.grooveshark.com and check that out.
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Question by : ICE SKATES (PIC SHOWN ) NEED HELP ?
i really want these skates / this type of style i think it looks really nice but is there anyway that there is another type of ice skates that look like these or close to these in a size 8 womans cause these are for kids but i really really would like to have these but thier not in my size PLEASE HELP
Answer by Figure
Those aren’t nice skates, at all. Not even for recreational skating. They have poor ankle support and a crappy blade. I’d suggest a Riedell or Jackson recreational model, which are a bit pricier but are more comfortable with lots more ankle support.
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Question by yupp thats me <3: Would this hurt me ‘in the long run’? Some help please!(:?
So I’m 15 (turning 16 in 2 months) and currently on my period, I got it Thursday night and i’ll probably be done by Tuesday. It isn’t that heavy, I use the ultra thin pads and I don’t really get cramps.
My question is….
I’m going roller skating for my little cousin’s birthday today and I can’t skate to save my life and I always fall and sometimes hard, so will that end up hurting me uterus or vagina and what not by falling?
I heard those organs are sensitive while on your period, so I just wanted to know.
And sorry if its in the wrong category, it wouldn't let me put it in women's health
Answer by dumplingmuffin
you will be fine,and no you cant hurt yourself when you have your period
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Question by karolyn: i need help !! someome pleasee i need a 100 on this.?
1. Select the sentence in which all pronouns are used correctly.
A. Just between you and I, I am not impressed by our new manager.
B. Be sure to divide all income from the suburban property between he and I.
C. I sat between him and her during the sales conference.
D. I hope she will keep this between she and I.
2. Select the sentence in which the verb correctly agrees with the subject.
A. A copy of Moby Dick and several magazines has disappeared from my room.
B. Peggy and Phyllis drives me to Florida every winter.
C. Les and Miranda is late for work today.
D. Not only the muffler but also the spark plugs need to be replaced.
3. Which of the following sentences contains an italicized word that’s used as a predicate adjective?
A. Jerry looks at the map. C. Jerry looks into the microscope.
B. Jerry looks ill today. D. Jerry looks disdainfully at the pile of laundry.
4. Which sentence below contains a correctly used modifier in italics?
A. He spoke sharply to his sister.
B. I feel goodly now that I’m over the flu.
C. The sauce tasted bitterly, and I couldn’t swallow it.
D. Joe looked sad at his broken bike.
5. Which one of the following is a correct example of the singular possessive case?
A. women’s club C. who’s job
B. audiences’ reaction D. king’s rights
6. Choose the sentence in which the italicized pronoun agrees in number with its italicized antecedent or
A. Maureen called the children for his meal.
B. The boys want their dessert now.
C. Mary and Jill won’t eat her vegetables.
D. The waiter refilled their glasses as they emptied it.
7. Which one of the following is a correct spelling of a plural noun?
A. buffaloes C. oxes
B. knifes D. gooses
8. Which one of the following is a correct example of the plural possessive case?
A. stone’s throw C. it’s place
B. men’s plans D. woman’s plans
9. Choose the simple subject in the following sentence.
The tallest contestant won the prize.
A. tallest C. won
B. contestant D. prize
10. Choose the sentence in which the verb has a direct object.
A. She is insecure. C. George was furious.
B. I walked away. D. They won the game.
11. Choose the sentence which contains an indirect object.
A. I worked hard each day. C. I spent it immediately.
B. They gave me a bonus. D. It is difficult to save money.
12. Choose the simple predicate in the following sentence.
The men finished the game in a short time.
A. men C. game
B. finished D. time
13. Choose the sentence that has a compound predicate.
A. Swimming and golfing are Jim’s favorite sports.
B. Sue and I will listen.
C. Sandy washed and ironed her clothes.
D. We went home to eat and to study.
14. Choose the sentence that has a subject complement.
A. The nurse felt my pulse. C. The day ended with many surprises.
B. I felt much better. D. We can’t leave without seeing her.
15. In which sentence are the conjunctions used correctly?
A. Either Fred nor John knew about the accident.
B. The top award was given to neither Steve or Jim.
C. Neither beauty nor popularity was considered in the contest.
D. Mary enjoyed neither roller skating or ice skating.
16. Which one of the following pairs of words consists of antonyms?
A. true—false C. near—close
B. calm—quiet D. like—love
17. In which of the following sentences is the word its used correctly?
A. The monster reared its head at the tourists.
B. The problem with the lawn mower is that its old.
C. When trying to catch fish, its important to be patient.
D. Its easy to learn to play the guitar, if you’re willing to practice.
18. Which of the following italicized words is correctly capitalized?
A. Mount mckinley is the tallest mountain in North America.
B. The most beautiful State is Hawaii.
C. Marsha speaks excellent german.
D. Jim must drive to the North to study the northern lights.
19. Which of the following is a correctly written compound word?
A. Thirty one C. Quickly-running
B. Self-evident D. Spur of the moment-decision
20. Choose the sentence below in which of is used correctly.
A. We should of left early.
B. The boys surrendered, but they should of fought.
C. The bird flew north of the beach.
D. The three girls might of broken the records.
Answer by TWILIGHT OBSESSER
Why is this in Valentines day?
Anyway this is what i think it is:
9 C? dunno
16 I think its D…
18 PROBABLY B OR C
some of them are hard, and im only 12! how old are you?? this is pretty hard!
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